This is fitness nutrition expert Shawn Stevenson, and I'm so grateful for you tuning in with me today. There's a reason most dating coaches for men, are men.Shawn Stevenson: Welcome to The Model Health Show. See how many matches who respond are actually willing to meet and not just looking for a quick ego boost. Spend time coming up with a personalized thoughtful or funny message and not even get a response. See how few of those matches ever even respond to casual conversation. Take some average looking guy's pics and fire up tinder and see how many more right swipes it takes to get a match. And how difficult and annoying it can be to filter and weed out a lot of undesirable behaviour/traits.Ĭonversely, women could benefit from trying out the same exercise. It's also pretty off putting how aggressive and horny a lot of guys behave right from the start. It takes a lot to stand out and get a woman's attention. Most intelligent guys will start to realize how bombarded most women are with male attention and how lame and boring most guys' attempts are. One exercise some guys are coached do for example to help relate to how women feel when it comes to dating, is start up a tinder account with pictures of an average looking woman and start swiping. Thoughtful, but it's coming from a place with no discernible reference experience.
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It would be like a man offering advice on how to deal with menstruation. It's not 'because you are a woman', it's because these things are mostly outside your frame of reference. Stop.” Most people are very accustomed to gossiping and being shitty when “joking” about others a bold response like this will make you stand out as a loyal alpha, and that is sexy AF. “I won’t listen to you talk about ATXtoPDX. We just love to see our man value our friends and treat them well, especially when said friends may be feeling low about third-wheel’ing it.ģ) If a friend/family member starts to say something negative about your girl, shut it down immediately, especially if it is her friend or family member doing the talking. Of course if she abuses this kindness, then you should reconsider the desirability of your *lady, but most women won’t. This will not make you come off as a try-hard if you are already in a loving and committed relationship. It shows her mom, grandma, or anyone else who works in the kitchen that you are thoughtful and modern.Ģ) Always, (unless you really can’t afford it), pay for her girlfriends when you go out as a group and you are the only male. So, since this place already contains all the guidance one could desire for seduction, here is something for when you have a woman who is a keeper (*note - this advice only applies after you have built a solid foundation of respect and admiration do not do ANY of these things for women with whom you are trying to build attraction).ġ) the first time you go to her parents home for dinner, ask “what can I do to help?” as you are in the kitchen rolling up your sleeves to wash your hands. We can be hard to understand, but once you embrace the rules of the game, it does become more straightforward. Girls who feel ready, (aka dressed cute, made up, and out socializing) actually want you to approach us! We want you to want us, but not too much. I love this sub because as a female I used to dream of writing a book/teaching a class with a lot of the same info. I tried to just include the key bits of info, and I skipped a few chapters/concepts that I thought were pretty unnecessary to review.Įdit: Here is an alternative formatting that u/trifle_truffle was cool enough to put together. Let me know if there is any changes I could make to the document. It has a ton of great examples that are pretty helpful for understanding a lot of these concepts. If you haven't read it in full, I would highly recommend doing so. This was created mostly for people who have already read Models. This study guide can help with a quick review to keep those ideas in your head. I think it is a very helpful book for beginners, but with any self help book, the ideas tend to fade from your brain a few weeks after reading.
I made these "cliffnotes" so that I can review the main concepts of the book without re-reading the whole thing.
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